Relational Life Counseling

Whether you’re a new couple thinking about a long-term relationship or have been together for fifty years I’m here to help you and your partner find the path that leads to a relationship each partner loves being in.

Learn to be allies, not adversaries!

Intentionality, Presence, Connection, Communication, intimacy, Affection, Sex.

I work hard to create a safe, compassionate space to work toward your goals. Together, we can explore your life and discover paths to the change you are seeking. I will roll up my sleeves and work closely with you to seek understanding, foster healing and personal growth so you can live your best life!

Grief and loss, meaning and purpose, relationships, life transitions.

I love to help new couples start off on the right foot. Hey, you know what? Ignorance is to blame for most of the relationship problems we get stuck in. And, it gets the best of most of us. Worse, there’s no relationship manual. Most of us didn’t have perfect role models for relationships, and our parents were in the same boat we are now. We don’t even know the right questions to ask. Well, I aim to help you change that by fostering the right conversations—the conversations that build a foundation for a lifetime of love and trust and safety.

Not much can go more wrong in a relationship than betrayal. When one partner chooses another partner it causes devastation and mistrust, and it leads many, many couples to separate and divorce. But, healing can happen, trust can be rebuilt. It’s not easy for either partner. But, I’ve seen couples walk out of the process with a better marriage than before the cheating. A lot of reasons why that is the case, but for now just know IF YOU WANT TO STAY IN THE MARRIAGE, there is hope! There is a way.

There’s a ton of confusion right now for men and a man’s identity. Anxiety, depression, and suicide ideation impact countless men throughout the lifespan. I love working with men around these complex issues—unpacking the messages the world throws at you and creating new boundaries that empower you alone to define who and what you are. This allows you to build a new, healthier relationship with yourself and the world around you.

Grief can knock us off our feet and remove the air we breathe. We can get stuck, and just not want to move forward. Moving forward is inevitable at some point, and there is a time for that conversation. But, I join grieving individuals where they are every day and help them process the meaning of what they’ve lost and negotiate how this devastating loss has changed life at its core.